IzanJay's quote collections

Please remember that, no matter what I say or do, I love you

2011-06-13T21:26:00.002+08:00

Went to Clinton this morning, and found this cards, of Blue Mountain ranges..the words, just so beautifully written..I heard all those stories about marriage life..from friends, families, relatives...Whatever it is, I pray for every couples I've known, my parents, my siblings, my relatives, my friends..everybody..for any turbulence in the journey, remember..no matter what happen, your love towards each other is unbeatable..your love..is forever...

Words by Donna Fargo..

'I know we have our unhappy moments..when things aren't going great or we hurt each other's feelings or we say things in the heat of an argument or we do things we wish we hadn't. But..

After the storm is over, after we try to see each other's side, after we calm down and put things in proper perspective, after we apologize and ask each other's forgiveness..we realize that we're just not perfect so all our rough edges are not smoothed out yet and we don't show our love perfectly..and then we forgive each other and go on...

As much as I try to change my ways, become more mature in my thinking, learn patience, slow down enough to listen and be objective and not take things so personally, I mess up sometimes and say or do something that almost upsets the foundation of our love. I just want you to know that I am always so sorry for that..

I also hope that you will always remember that those hasty words and careless acts are not indicative of my true feelings. They are just fleeting, momentary displeasures. They are unprocessed emotions, my immaturity speaking, my unguarded reactions. They are not the whole picture, but rather just a a little blot on the corner of the canvas of our relationship. The truth is..I love you all the time, even when things aren't perfect. I say things that hurt sometimes because I'm hurt.

I sometimes do things without thinking of your feelings, and at times I just do things without thinking of the consequences of my own actions. Please understand that I never mean to hurt you. I think sometimes part of the problem is that men and women are different; we react differently to situations and see things at times only from our own perspective. Please forgive me when I'm not sensitive to your needs and feelings.

Through it all, I hope that you can trust in the fact that I love you, no matter what I say or how I act. I will continue to work on trying to show my love to you in a more loving way, so that there is no doubt in your heart and mind that I love you. I don't want you to think that I'm copping out and excusing my behaviour when my actions seem insensitive and unloving. I'm not perfect, and I just want you to know that I love you and will always love you...'

A reason for everything

2011-03-10T21:32:00.001+08:00

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be - a roommate, a neighbor, a professor, a friend, a lover, or even a complete stranger - but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect yourlife in some profound way.

Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength,willpower, or heart.

Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved straight flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you become. Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are sometimes the most important ones.

If someone loves you, give love back to them in whatever way you can, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and listen to what they have to say.

Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you.

You can make anything you wish of your life. Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.

Learn a lesson in life each day that you live! Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday.

10 ways you know he's the one

2011-01-12T01:45:00.000+08:00

Article from yahoo lifestyle UK (http://uk.lifestyle.yahoo.com/love-sex/10-ways-you-know-hes-the-one-blog-4-handbag.html)

"Part time fling or long term lover? It's the eternal question. He's cute, funny and your friends love him, but is that enough? How do you know he's ‘the one'? Here are 10 factors to consider and if you can meet at least nine of them then hold tight because he might just be the one you've been looking for.

1) He makes you laugh until you cry

A sense of the humour is one of the most appealing qualities in a man and sharing the same jokes will keep you close, whatever comes your way. It doesn't matter if no one else finds you funny, as long as you can make each other laugh out loud.

2) You want the same things out of life

If you want to settle down and have a family and he wants to travel the world with no commitments then you are not on the same page. Although all couples have to make compromises you should essentially want the same things out of life and be able to work towards them together.

3) He likes you best with no makeup on

Yes, you may think he is lying but the chances are that he really does prefer you au natural. He loves you for you, not for the clothes you wear or the make up you doll yourself up in. If he tells you you're pretty when you are cuddled up in your pyjamas then chances are that he means it.

4) You love him because of his flaws

It is wrong to think that to be ‘the one' your man has to be perfect. Nobody is perfect. He is ‘the one' when you know him well enough to see all his flaws, accept them for part of who he is, and love him just as much anyway.

5) He supports you in everything you do

Whether you are going for a job promotion or planning a night out with your friends - he should be your biggest cheerleader. He may not agree 100% with all your decisions but he will never stop you doing anything, will be there to offer advice and pick you up when things go wrong.

6) You trust him implicitly

If you have been hurt in the past it can be difficult to trust again, but it is an important part of any relationship. Your partner should earn your trust by proving that he always keeps his word and treats you with respect. No, you can never be 100% sure he won't stray but 99.5% will do.

7) Even your dad/best friend/dog likes him

OK, it shouldn't matter what other people think of him, but it is still nice to know that they approve. Your dad and best friend are only looking out for your best interests and it is difficult to convince them that somebody is good enough for you. If your boyfriend manages to get them on his side then you are probably on to a winner.

8) You wake up and feel lucky each morning

As you roll over in the morning and see him lying next to you, you are struck with a great sense of contentment. Here, out of everywhere in the world, is where you most want to be. You feel lucky to have him in your life and can't imagine sharing it with anyone else.

9) You stop noticing the cute guy at the coffee shop

Of course you are still going to find other men attractive but it is amazing how much less you notice them when you have found ‘the one'. Think about it, have you met anyone recently who really got your juices flowing? No? Then chances are he's right in front of you.

10) You just know

Sometimes there is no defining factor or moment that confirms he is ‘the one' - you just know. When your life is brighter with him in it (even with his annoying habits and football obsession), when you feel happy each morning and can't imagine your life without him, when you smile thinking about him - you just know"

This is your life..

2010-05-13T08:49:00.000+08:00

"This is your life...Right now. It doesn't wait for you to get back on your feet..."
- From a movie, A lot like love.

Laskar Pelangi

2010-05-05T23:12:00.001+08:00

Kekuatan itu dibentuk oleh iman..Jadi ingatlah anak-anakku, teguhkan pendirian. Kalian harus punya ketekunan, harus punya keinginan yang kuat untuk mencapai cita-cita. Kalian harus punya keberanian dan pantang menyerah, menghadapi tentangan macam apa pun..dan ingat..Hidup untuk memberi sebanyak-banyaknya, bukan untuk menerima sebanyak-banyaknya...

Life's too short...

2010-04-30T00:48:00.000+08:00

Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the people who treat you right. Love the ones who don't just because you can. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it. Take pleasures slowly. Forgive quickly. Enjoy life! God never said life would be easy. He just promised it would be worth it....
- From Adnawani's FB status

I don't ...

2010-04-18T12:07:00.001+08:00

I don't want to be with you...I don't want you....I can't imagine my whole life with u...definitely I can live without you...I don't need you..it doesn't matter if you're not there...

Let it be..

2010-02-09T23:46:00.002+08:00

Communication is the root for every solutions...If we never utter what we feel, what we think..it will ended up...lost..lost in translation..because we'll never find the answer..for every doubts..for every confusions..for every problems..n there goes undergoing misunderstanding..misjudge

ment...misinterpretation..neverending mis-case.

If we've tried our best..whatever happen next..let it be..deliberation ain't there anymore...some things are better left untold...some things shouldn't be urged ..any further..or else..we might lose what we already have...so let it be..

Man does not wait..

2010-02-09T23:45:00.002+08:00

“A man does not wait years to put out his feelings..because by that time he passed the friendship line already and he don’t look at her romantically..she were never the choice ..if ever he wants her close , just as a substitute whenever he feels alone…whenever he feels like to have company..whenever.whenever

..

but it happens sometimes..when he chased the wrong ones and suddenly realized this friend next door is whom he need.. but still that goes back to the core.. she were never the first choice.. which is ok because the attraction might not be physical at this point.. but more of emotional reconciliation.. she complete him emotionally.. and some men can look beyond physical at that point and some don’t..”

He's just not that into you

2010-02-08T23:10:00.002+08:00

Quotes from the movie; He's just not that into you

"If a guy doesn't call you, he doesn't want to call you.."

"If a guy is treating you like he doesn't give a shit, he genuinely doesn't give a shit. No exceptions.."

"Girl : If a guy wants to be with a girl, he will make it happen, no matter what..you did not seem to want to make it happen.

Guy : Here's the thing about that... You were right. I'd gotten so used to keeping myself at a safe distance from all these women and having the power that, that I didn't know what it felt like when I actually fell for one of them... I didn't know"

"I may dissect each little thing and put myself out there so much but at least that means that I still care. Oh! You've think you won because women are expendable to you. You may not get hurt or make an ass of yourself that way but you don't fall in love that way either. You have not won. You're alone. I may do a lot of stupid shit but I'm still a lot closer to love than you are.."

"Sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope.."

The Wedding Date

2009-07-30T02:17:00.002+08:00

Extracted from the movie; The Wedding Date

Nick : If you look people in the eye, they won't notice what you're wearing

Nick : I know how important that this is for you. But remember, you're a beautiful woman and you've got everything in the world going for you.

Jeffrey : Weddings are celebration of love and commitment

Nick : Close your eyes. You're safe. You can relax. I'm not gonna kiss you. He's gonna be sorry he lost you. So stop worrying. Forget the past, forget the pain. And remember, what an incredible woman you are. If you do that, he'll realize what he lost

Nick : I think I'd miss you even if we'd ever met

Nick :..Maybe now you'll be able to able to hold on to this long enough to ruin your next relationship!

Dad: So why you let him go?
Kat: It's complicated, dad
Dad : Hmm..right. It probably wouldn't have worked out anyway huh?...I remember reading a fascinating article in the NYT magazine ...where this guy said; "Every woman has the exact love life she wants". You know what?I agree with him. But I refuse to believe that this is what you want, Kat. Ever since you were little kid, you've always worried about what other people think. Now, come on...what do you think, is he the guy for you?
Kat:...
Dad: Then go and get him

Nick : The hardest thing is loving someone and then having the courage to let them love you back. But if you know her shit and she knows yours, at the end of the day..you still would rather gave up than try..nothing's ever gonna be worth it..

Nick: Last night, when we were fighting, I thought this was over and I was going to leave you alone and take off..but then I realized..I'd rather fight with you than make love with anyone else...

I loved her for that she was beautiful

2009-01-06T18:09:00.001+08:00

I loved her for that she was beautiful;
And that to me she seem'd to be all Nature,
And all varieties of things in one:
Would set at night in clouds of tears,
and rise All light and laughter in the morning; fear
No petty customs nor appearances; B
ut think what others only dream'd about;
And say what others did but think; and do
What others dared not do:
so pure withal In soul; in heart and act such conscious yet
Such perfect innocence, she made round her
A halo of delight. '
Twas these which won me;— And that she never school'd within her breast
One thought or feeling, but gave holiday To all;
and that she made all even mine In the communion of love:
and we Grew like each other,
for we loved each other;
She, mild and generous as the air in spring;
And I, like earth all budding out with love.
- by Philip James Bailey receivedfrom Kat, (Siti Khadijah) thru YM on 1/6/2009 4:14:59 PM,

January 6

2009-01-06T18:06:00.002+08:00

There's many a good tune played on an old fiddle
- Samuel Butler

Kebahagiaan

2008-12-31T20:28:00.000+08:00

Kebahagiaan itu tidak terdapat dalam garis keturunan, dalam harta benda dan emas berlian. Tetapi kebahagiaan itu terdapat dalam agama, ilmu, sopan santun dan destinasi yang kesampaian.- Dr. 'Aidh Abdullah Al-Qarni
- dari Nurul Hamzah's YM

Berdoa...

2008-12-22T18:23:00.001+08:00

Masing2 mencari kepenuhan untuk mengisi kekosongan. Masing2 mencari kebisingan untuk menghilangkan kesunyian. Masing2 mencari ketenangan untuk mententeramkan hati yang kegundahan. Semua itu sudah menjadi lumrah bagi setiap insan bernama manusia. Berdoalah dalam ketenangan agar dapat mengubati dan mengisi kekosongan hati yang sunyi dan bergelora. Sentiasa ingat dan memohon kepada Yang Maha Esa agar diperkenankan segala doa tentang kebaikan, doa tentang keinsafan, doa tentang kejayaan.
- by Lukman, as posted in his blog on Monday Oct 20th..

Miracles...

2008-12-22T18:05:00.004+08:00

"Sometimes miracle happen when we least expected"
- from the movie "All I want for Christmas"

Love. complete

2008-12-22T18:01:00.006+08:00

"Love's not about the sparks...It's about you're not feel complete until you're with the person you love.. "
- from the movie 'All I want for Christmas'

Life.....

2008-12-17T11:44:00.001+08:00

I could not, at any age, be content to take my place by the fireside and simply look on. Life was meant to be lived. Curiosity must be kept alive. One must never, for whatever reason, turn his back on life
-from Seha (Nur Saleha Razali) on 17th Dec; quotes by Eleanor Roosevelt

Courage

2008-12-17T11:41:00.001+08:00

Courage, it would seem, is nothing less than the power to overcome danger, misfortune, fear, injustice, while continuing to affirm inwardly that life with all its sorrows is good; that everything is meaningful even if in a sense beyond our understanding; and that there is always tomorrow.
-from Seha (Nur Saleha Razali) on 17th Dec; quotes by Dorothy Thompson

Happy..happiness

2008-12-17T11:27:00.002+08:00

There are as many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year's course. Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word 'happy' would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness.
-from Seha (Nur Saleha Razali) on 17th Dec; quotes by Carl Jung

Time...

2008-12-17T11:16:00.001+08:00

Time is a companion that goes with us on a journey. It reminds us to cherish each moment, because it will never come again. What we leave behind is not as important as how we have lived.
-from Seha (Nur Saleha Razali) on 17th Dec; quotes by Patrick Stewart, from the film "Star Trek: Generations"

Brother David Steindl-Rast

2008-12-17T11:10:00.002+08:00

Gratefulness is the key to a happy life that we hold in our hands, because if we are not grateful, then no matter how much we have we will not be happy -- because we will always want to have something else or something more.
-from Seha (Nur Saleha Razali) on 17th Dec; quotes by Brother David Steindl-Rast

Three passions...

2008-12-17T11:03:00.001+08:00

Three passions have governed my life:
The longings for love, the search for knowledge,
And unbearable pity for the suffering of [humankind].

Love brings ecstasy and relieves loneliness.
In the union of love I have seen
In a mystic miniature the prefiguring vision
Of the heavens that saints and poets have imagined.

With equal passion I have sought knowledge.
I have wished to understand the hearts of [people].
I have wished to know why the stars shine.

Love and knowledge led upwards to the heavens,
But always pity brought me back to earth;
Cries of pain reverberated in my heart
Of children in famine, of victims tortured
And of old people left helpless.
I long to alleviate the evil, but I cannot,
And I too suffer.

this has been my life; i found it worth living..

-from Seha (Nur Saleha Razali) on 17th Dec; quotes by Bertrand Russell

Believe in yourself

2008-12-17T10:35:00.002+08:00

If you believe in miracles and dreams that all come true…
You will find as if by magic they will unfold in front of you..
No matter how dark the burden nor how heavy the load you hold..
Those dreams are waiting for you..
All shimmering like gold..
Just believe within yourself..and keep focused every day
And never for a moment, allow them to slip away!
Then simply try to recognize ..the strength you have within…
-commercial greeting card

God bless...

2008-12-16T17:47:00.006+08:00

May trouble, worries and problem never linger, may they only make you stronger and wiser..And may you rise each day with sunlight in your heart and success in your path. God bless.
- wish from Jovitha for my 29th birthday and pasted on my computer monitor.

Prayer..The lady...

2008-12-16T15:54:00.003+08:00

Dear God: The lady reading this is beautiful, classy and strong, and I love her. Help her live her life to the fullest. Please promote her and cause her to excel above her expectations. Help her shine in the darkest places where it is impossible to love. Protect her at all times, lift her up when she needs you the most, and let her know when she walks with you, she will always be safe.
- email received from Mas (Masitah Mohd Nasir), on Dec 5, 2008.

Do what which makes u happy!

2008-12-15T15:36:00.002+08:00

Life is brief and fragile...
Do what which makes u happy!
-'fridge magnet in office'-

A little more...a little less..

2008-12-15T15:34:00.003+08:00

A little more laughter..
A little less worry...
A little more kindness...
A little less hurry...
-'fridge magnet in office'-

Tough times..

2008-12-15T15:33:00.003+08:00

Tough times don't last, tough people do!
-'fridge magnet in office'

Good things...

2008-12-15T15:32:00.003+08:00

Good things happen when you go for it!
-'fridge magnet in office'

Never give up!

2008-12-15T15:29:00.002+08:00

Never give up! Don'quit..hang on just keep going...
-'fridge magnet in office'

Just do it!

2008-12-15T15:27:00.003+08:00

Whatever you can do or think you can...
Just do it!!!
Set no limits to what you want to achieve
-'fridge magnet in office'

Trust yourself

2008-12-15T15:24:00.006+08:00

Trust yourself..
You know more than you think you do.
-'fridge magnet in office'

I know I can...

2008-12-15T15:21:00.004+08:00

I think I can
I think I can
I think I can
I know I can
- 'fridge magnet in office'

What's love??

2008-12-07T11:30:00.006+08:00

When you are together with that special someone, you pretend to ignore that person. But when that special someone is not around, you might look around to find them.At that moment, you are in love.

Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh,your eyes and attention might go only to that special someone.Then, you are in love.

Although that special someone was supposed to have called you long back, to let you know of their safe arrival,your phone is quiet.You are desperately waiting for the call!At that moment, you are in love.

If you are much more excited for one short e-mail fromthat special someone than other many long e-mails,you are in love.

When you find yourself as one who cannot erase all themessages in your answering machine because of one messagefrom that special someone, you are in love.

When you get a couple of free movie tickets, you wouldnot hesitate to think of that special someone.Then, you are in love.

You keep telling yourself, "that special someone is just a friend", but you realize that you can not avoid that person's special attraction. At that moment, you are in love.

While you are reading this page, if someoneappears in your mind,then u are in love with that person.

- Anonymous

Someone to love...someone to make us complete..."The Wonder Years"

2008-12-07T11:22:00.001+08:00

“ All our young lives we search for someone to love, someone to make us complete. We choose partners and change partners. We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope, all the while wondering if somewhere, somehow, someone perfect is searching for us..”
- From The Wonder Years -

One perfect person for everybody..."Forces of Nature"

2008-12-07T11:20:00.002+08:00

“ I always thought that there was this one perfect person for everybody in the world, you know and when you found that person the rest of the world kind of magically faded away, and you know, the two of you would just be inside this kind of protective bubble, but there is no bubble, I mean if there is you have to make it, I just think life is more than a series of moments, you know, we can make choices, and we can choose to protect the people we love, and that’s what makes us who we are and those are the real memories”
- From the movie Forces of Nature -

That moment.."Never Been Kissed"

2008-12-07T11:18:00.001+08:00

“ You know, that moment when you kiss someone and everything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and that person. And you realize that person is the only person that you’re supposed to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this gift. And you want to laugh and you want to cry because you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared that it will go away all at the same time..”
- from the movie Never Been Kissed -

I guarantee...."Runaway Bride"

2008-12-07T11:17:00.002+08:00

“ Look, I guarantee there’ll be though times. I guarantee that at some time, one or both of us is gonna want to get out of this thing. But I also guarantee that if I don’t ask you to be mine, I’ll regret it for the rest of my life, because I know, in my heart, you’re the only one for me…..”
- from the movie Runaway Bride -

When you realize....."When Harry Met Sally"

2008-12-07T11:15:00.002+08:00

“ When you realize..
you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody…
You want the rest of your life..
To start as soon as possible..”
- From the movie When Harry met Sally -

The sorrow of life

2008-12-07T11:10:00.002+08:00

The sorrow of life will teach us… to accept many new beginnings…
To smile…even though it hurts…
To reach out.. even if there’s no one there…
To aim high.. and never say die..
Cause there’s always sun at the end of the night….
- Anonymous

In times of sorrow

2008-12-07T11:08:00.002+08:00

In times of sorrow I will listen to you, hold you, be there for you and rock you, and take your grief and make it our own. When you cry, I cry.. and when you hurt, I hurt. And together we will try to hold back the floods of tears and despair and make it through the potholed streets of life…
- Anonymous

Hargai apabila berdua.....

2008-12-07T10:48:00.007+08:00

Hargai apabila berdua, Sayangi apabila bersama, Maafkan apabila terluka, Rindui apabila jauh di sana, Fahami apabila berprasangka, Ingati saban ketika..kerana Allah kasih tercipta...
- sms received from Zehan (Non Zaihana Markom) on 241108, extracted from novel Tautan Hati

Never wait..

2008-12-06T01:24:00.009+08:00

"Never wait for such moments to show your affection. Have you told your loved ones, your friends how much they mean to you? If you are not the "talking" type (like me), show him or her how much they mean to you...today..now"
- Foo Hee Boon in Facing Cancer, page 36.

It was 16th February 2007

2008-12-06T01:05:00.000+08:00

"There is no pain worse than not achieving a dream when it is your fault. If God did not want you to have it, that is one thing. But if you do not get what you desire because you are lazy, there is no pain worse than that"
- Will Smith in “Will Power – One driven guy” – From Readers Digest Jan 2007.